No matter what, no matter when, no matter who, any man has the opportunity to surprise any woman. You just need the right broom. “That’s what” Date Doctor “said in the movie” Hitch “starring Will Smith. Date Doctor goes on to say that” women associate dance with sex. “

Since the movie was released, I have been bombarded with emails asking if it is true that women associate dance with sex. I know other people have other opinions, but as for me and my family, we believe that many women judge a man’s sexual potential by his dance moves. With a few exceptions, music touches women in a very deep and unique way: it awakens their feeling. Dance, on the other hand, unlocks the playful and sensual side of her personality. And if men knew how powerful aphrodisiac dance is for women, they might not get the “I’m not in the mood” as often as they do.

Many of my friends and women I have had the privilege of working with tell me that they know what kind of lover a man would make by the way he danced. They could tell if a man is a gamer, shy, inhibited or uninhibited, passionate or passive and yes, they could even tell if he is a drunk by watching the way he moves his body on the dance floor. And when it comes to dating, these women say they want a man who is interested in more than eating, working, and sleeping. They want a man who knows how to communicate his love potential and one who knows how to move that sexual energy through his body. If you’ve seen Patrick Swayze on “Dirty Dancing,” then you know what I’m talking about. It is much more than “dancing sexy”, it is as if the man reaches the depths and then releases that inner being in a sensual movement. It has a purpose but it is fun. It is relaxed and effortless. Something on his body says “strong and cuddly, fun and frivolous.” It’s … it’s … how can I say it? The woman gets that “shake” below the navel. And when a woman has had the pleasure of dancing in the arms of a good dancer, it is almost impossible to settle for less, unless she has an incredibly exciting career where they can experience unlimited financial freedom together or he is amazing in bed. or both!

Unfortunately, misperceptions that describe dance as effeminate prevent many men from becoming fashionable. Some need a minimum of two drinks to have the courage to hit the ground. And when they step onto the dance floor, their alcohol-aided sense of adventure is a series of exaggerated theatrical gestures that are torture to watch.

Guys, if you don’t have the unlimited cash flow or don’t exactly fall into the category of “awesome” in bed, then a dance class should be your next stop. If you’ve got the moves already, show off that fancy footwork and I don’t mean those Tarzan ape gestures. Put a little grace on it. If you haven’t been to the gym lately and have built up a bit of excess or have a very slim build, don’t try belly dancing. Save that for the coed high school dance floor. Unless, of course, your intention is to attract another man, then, of course, more power to you. But for the man who embraces his masculine side more, the raised wrist thing with elbows against hips, no, don’t do that.

Dances like tango, salsa, and ballroom dancing are some of the most passionate and graceful dances out there, but they’re only good for you if you’re already in a relationship or have established a strong connection. And remember that you first have to say yes to “Shall we dance?” To make sure she will say yes when you approach her, show her what you have. No, please not that. Save it for another day, another place, and another time. I mean show him your moves. Ricky Martin-Usher-Omarion’s sensual dance moves around the groin can set your imagination free in a romantic and seductive way. If you’re on your wavelength, chances are you’ll get the message and smile back.