Swinging is a non-monogamous sexual activity that partners engage in openly and honestly. In the United States, there are at least three million swingers. If you are interested in visiting an American swing club, how do you go about it?
1. First, don’t bother unless you’re an adult. No American swing club will accept you if you are underage. Most American swing clubs will only accept people over the age of 21.
Search online for links to swing clubs in your area. You’ll find websites for various swing clubs that will describe the club’s rules, which may include photos of some of the rooms, which will include upcoming party theme dates, and which will include phone numbers. What you won’t find are addresses of physical locations. Addresses do not appear on swing club websites for various reasons. For example, guests interested in a swing club should first be screened by phone. If the swing club owner is satisfied with the conversation and information shared, guests will receive more information about the club, including the address.
2. If you have arranged to attend a swing club, determine if you would like to join one of the themes. It is typical for American swing clubs to offer themes. For example, leather night or sexy heels night.
3. Ladies, dress up and have fun! Although swing clubs are for men and women, everyone loves to watch the ladies! This is your chance to really make a statement. Let’s say you’ve decided to attend a “sexy heels night.” Make sure to wear your favorite pair of stilettos. Top them off with sexy lingerie or a tight black miniskirt. There is no need to be shy. You’re used to covering up during the week, so why not show some skin at the club? The attention you’ll get from admiring eyes is always fun!
4. When you arrive at the club, be prepared to pay the membership fee. Fees at American swing clubs are typically $80 or more for a couple. If you become a member of the club, your rate may be reduced or you may eventually be eligible for a free party. Also, be prepared to attend a club tour and/or orientation meeting.
5. After your tour, you are now ready to have some fun. In all respectable American swing clubs… no means no. You are not required to engage in sexual activities with other people unless you choose to do so. Members are obligated to respect each other. If there is a problem, the club owners will make sure to ask the offending members to leave. Also, American swing clubs require you to bring your own alcohol. Simply put your name on your bottle and place it with the others. The use of cell phones is not allowed in most swing clubs. This is because many cell phones have a camera option that does not respect the privacy of those involved. Reputable swing clubs are racially tolerant. Single men are generally not allowed in swing clubs, however single women often are. You’ll find fun dance music and usually a DJ. Many people talk and dance first before moving on to sexual activity later in the night. Swing clubs will have private rooms, group rooms, and special rooms, such as for BDSM activities.