Women are truly selfless creatures who care more for those around them than for themselves. This is the way women were built and the foundation on which women mature. It is this attitude that makes women incredible lovers in the bedroom. Having a partner who is more concerned with your own pleasure and satisfaction than their own is a very attractive quality and one that many seek. You already possess this quality but you lack it compared to others.
Are you a woman who feels that you are not enough for your man? Do you turn around after sex and criticize your performance, thinking there was so much more you could do with him? Do you feel like you’re holding back and afraid to give him everything you’re really capable of? If this sounds like you, then it’s time you got that confidence boost you’ve been looking for. You want to learn how to be a better lover to your man and you are going to learn how to do just that today.
Working on your confidence and sexual skills is easy when you have something to follow. That’s why using new sexual positions can give you the boost you’ve been looking for. Foreplay is complex, just like oral sex, so using sex as a way to be a better lover to your man is the easiest way to go.
You and your man are probably veterans in the sack when it comes to missionary, cowgirl, and doggy style positions. These are the three basic foods that most couples use in their sexual lives. Breaking away from these three and looking outside of the box is weird, but it’s something you’re going to do. If you really want to send your man over the edge and cement yourself as one of the best lovers he’s ever had, then these positions are a must for you.
The scissors: This position is a lot like the missionary position, but the angle you enter it is life-changing. Start on your back near the edge of a bed or flat surface high enough to match your waist. He will stand in front of you and enter you that way. Then you are going to put your legs at a 90 degree angle against his chest and he is free to move your legs like a scissor. This may not sound like much, but wait until it happens to you and him. When he moves your legs like this, he opens you up one minute, allowing him to hit your G-spot, and then the next, he seals you in, allowing your PC muscles to latch onto him, making it so tight for him. He may take the reigns in a sense, but it’s really you who has all the power, using your pelvic region to please him in incredible ways. Just wait until you both orgasm in this position.
The Spoon: You’re probably used to this position in terms of cuddling, but have you ever used it for sex? You don’t have to work as hard in this position and neither of you will get fatigued, allowing you to stay longer and maximize pleasure. Start by lying on your side on the bed and having your man come up behind you, facing the same direction as you. Open your legs and lean your hips back toward him. Now, you can be in control and move your hips on him, use your hands to grab him from behind, and even whisper sexy things in his ear. He has free rein to run his hands all over your body, including your breasts and even your clitoris. Feeling like he fills you up on top of being able to touch you will send him over the edge.
What are you waiting for? It’s time for you and your man to try these unique sex positions tonight so you both can re-ignite the fire. You are an amazing lover and your man thinks so too. It’s time you give yourself some credit.