My boyfriend doesn’t call me often. If you are a woman who says this, chances are you feel rejected by the man you adore. Although many men don’t place as much importance on phone calls as women, it is still a very important part of the dating dynamic. You want me to call you because it helps you feel loved, adored, and wanted. When he doesn’t call you, he leaves you feeling neglected and insecure about his true feelings for you. The key to getting a man to call more is to understand why he doesn’t. Once you have that knowledge, you can change the whole dynamic of your relationship so that your boyfriend calls you as much or even more often than you do.
When you’re dating a guy and he doesn’t call, the main thing you’re thinking about at the moment is how you’re going to react when you talk to him. There is a fine line between disappointment and anger in a situation like this. If you wait hours after the promised time of his call and then call him when you are in a frustrated mood, he will notice. They may tell you that they are exaggerating or just decide they don’t want to talk to you right now. Very often, the real reason men don’t call is simply because they forget to call. Getting mad at a man for this is not going to accomplish anything. He will quietly think that you are putting too much emphasis on a phone call and furthermore, he will realize that your life revolves around him and knowing about him. You don’t want any man to come to that conclusion about you.
So what’s the best thing to do if your boyfriend doesn’t call you as often as you’d like? Stop calling him completely. He knows that you will make the call and he knows he doesn’t have to. If you stop assuming the role of the caller in the relationship, they will have no choice but to start calling you. It seems like very simple advice. It works, but the challenge is following it. Most women don’t have the willpower to do it, but if you can stop calling, you’ll find that he will start calling before you know it.