Do you remember Seinfield?
Yes, the TV show.
(By the way, even decades after being cancelled… people still love it!)
Anyway…
A couple of days ago, I read a newsletter from one of my business mentors. He talked about a lesson he learned from that show. More specifically, the episode in which George Costanza did everything backwards. And while the lesson was about marketing, it can be applied to dating as well. Especially if you are looking for a high-quality and beautiful girlfriend instead of a drunk one.
So…
There’s a scene where George Costanza gets a job interview with the New York Yankees. Now, instead of kissing the owner’s ass, he told her that the Yankees sucked. He also made sure to tell her WHY he believed all the owner’s decisions were big mistakes.
They hired him on the spot!
Then there was this other scene, where he saw this hot and sexy girl having dinner alone. So he walked towards her. And instead of trying to be someone he’s not hers and trick her into dating, he told her that he was bald, short, didn’t have a job, and still lived with her parents. She Immediately she went on a date with him!
The crazy thing is…
It’s the same with dating as an introvert. You see, dating is hard for introverts! Because most dating advice tries to turn introverts into extroverts and push them to present themselves as someone they are not! And if that’s not enough, most dating techniques involve cheating, lying, and manipulating women into relationships. Needless to say, none of these will help you land a quality girlfriend.
And certainly not a long-term one!
I mean, what do you think happens once she finds out that the guy is NOT who she “pretended” to be? That’s how it is! She leaves him!
Here is my point:
Let the other team go that way.
Let the PUAs get hold of low-quality women and dump them after their “front” comes crashing down.
We will take the “opposite” approach.
Because doing the opposite of what everyone else is doing can give you a HUGE advantage with checkers, especially high-quality ones.
Try it.
You will really be surprised by the results.
By now, you’re probably wondering, “what specific opposite things can I do?” Well… here’s something practical that you can apply in your next interaction with a woman. The next time you disagree with a woman, instead of changing your opinion to agree with hers and going into “me too” mode like most men do, just do the opposite!
I disagree with her!
You will see that by doing so, you actually create attraction! Because attraction is created when we break the relationship, not when we build it. And that is the problem. All our lives, we have been taught to build a good relationship with people. Our parents told us to be nice. At school they told us to be nice. At work, we are asked to be nice.
Oh really…
Think about any communication course you’ve ever been on at work. It’s about building a good relationship and becoming friends with people. But if all you do with a woman is befriend her…don’t be surprised when you land in her friend zone. So the next time your date tells you that he likes Harry Potter, don’t be afraid to tell him that he’s dumb!
Of course, don’t be rude!
As long as you do it jokingly, with a cheeky smile on your face, you will notice that she will be more attracted to you!
I hope you enjoyed this article because that’s all I have for you today!